I'm struggling with how strict I should remain with a technically adult daughter. More men in their early twenties are going out to the clubs, getting wasted, picking up random strange women to sleep with, and not caring about other human beings in general. Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs. Even though I have an aunt who got married at 16 to my uncle who is eleven years older than her, I just thought it was gross. But the real question, as others have alluded to, is can you relate? Be prepared for him to already know what you're going through and think of you as a little silly when you tell him you have absolutely no clue as to how to solve the problem at hand--simply because he knows you've overlooked the solution twice already.
For me, and , it all begins with a number. But if you're mature enough, and act like an adult, you'll have a much better shot. The fact of the matter is there will always be someone out there, older or younger, that will try to manipulate you. You might try talking with your daughter about your concerns, but I don't think I would out right forbid her from seeing him. Your happiness comes before anthing else and ignore what people say or think. Nothing wrong with that as long as their over 18 and not young enough to be your son or brother. You will lose her if you try to tighten any ropes at this point.
In my opinion, it simply falls under the 'Probably a bad idea' heading. One thing led to another until we discovered something: We never actually knew how old the other was. I know age gaps like this can be scary, but trust me, the compatibility is perfect, and I've never felt this connection with any other guy in the past. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. My Indian boyfriend is 22 years old and I'm turning 28 years old soon. So really, it depends on the people, especially the maturity of the younger. She is to always tell me where she is going,when she will be home and who she is with.
They kept you from getting in trouble. I admit that sways my decision towards giving it a go despite my reluctance in the beginning. She some time confused because she say it is nor right i say with you, you need to find some on in your age. It's not terrible, but just be aware that even if the 3 years difference isn't much, you two are at different stages of life. I think it is good that she is bringing him around you so you can get to know him. If they're not attracted, they'll tell you. But again, I suppose it's because of the compatibility.
I've seen 21 year old guys talk openly with each other about raping young women. Maturity level is high for older men. I don't want left her never ever but some people say it is not right you stay with some one older than you. He recently asked me out and says he has feelings for me and loves everything about me. Is she still living at home with her parents and you're not, then she will probably seem immature to you.
Just keep the lines of communication open. As much of our generation is delaying activities like marriage and procreating, we are, in effect, also prolonging its adolescence. And most of the time, they'll at least give you a chance. What else are you going to do? We are together about 6 months. Our very knowledgeable friend somehow messed up our ages when setting us up.
And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it naturally, it involves being the younger sister. He makes me happy and I love being around him. I just can truly feel his love so genuine for me. We have now developed The Rule. He has already gone through what I will go through with growing up.
If she get into trouble with him worst case scenerio he molests her who is she going to tell, if she tells anyone. I'm feeling so much guilt and I question myself and who I am and if I'm a bad person now, but he makes me feel alive and happy and I don't know how else to explain it, men my age make me feel old or are so stressed or anxious, he is just so relaxed and at the same time very career focused. Heaven forbid you ever, ever, use the f-word! She needs to be with someone her own age so they can grow together, and grow old together and have challenges together. You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? Although it can work, a woman in her 30's is at a much different stage in life than that of a man that is in his early 20's. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Don't hang out with pervy guys. The strict mom route has no place in this situation.
I think in my relationship, he depends on me to advise him on life decisions, which is also a beautiful thing, as we make decisions together. Welcome to our YouTube and the nice view. I have the same situation with you. That means no joking about him being an old man or way, way worse… an old fart. Depending on where you live, 18 yo's can't get into a bar, so going out clubbing is out. If her parents are very involved in her life, they might not approve of their daughter dating an older guy at that age.